The 14th Carnival of Homeschooling is up

April 4th, 2006

Why Homeschool has graciously chaired the 14th Carnival of Homeschooling and it can be read at 14th Carnival of Homeschooling

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No More Children’s Crusades

January 2nd, 2006

No More Children’s Crusades
by Christopher J. Klicka

Historians disagree about exactly what happened in 1212. But they all agree it was a disaster for tens of thousands of young people.
As traditionally told, the “Children’s Crusade” started in that same year in two different countries. In France, a peasant boy named Stephen and in Germany a boy named Nicholas both claimed to have been told by Jesus Christ to go to the Holy Land, where they would liberate Jerusalem from the Moors (Arab Muslims). These boys told their followers that they had God’s especial protection for their mission, and that obstacles such as the Mediterranean Sea would miraculously part before them. Eventually 30,000 children followed Stephen and another 20,000 followed Nicholas, all with hearts full of great dreams of glory.

This seemed like a pipe dream, or something much worse, to most of the children’s parents. After all, grown men fully trained for battle and led by kings and dukes had failed to reclaim the Holy Land. How could an untrained, unsupplied band of children succeed where their fathers and grandfathers had failed?

King Philip of France told Stephen to call off his crusade. The Pope in Rome told Nicholas and his remaining crowd of children (many had already perished on the journey through the Alps from Germany to Italy) they were too young for such an adventure. Nonetheless, both groups pressed on.

When Stephen and his group arrived at Marseilles, merchants provided seven ships to take them to Palestine. Little was heard of them for years, until a young priest who embarked with them returned to relate that two ships had been wrecked and that a Saracen fleet surrounded the remaining ships. At this time the children learned their intended destination (and the reason why the merchants were so generous with their ships): they were to be sold as slaves. Which is exactly what happened.

Nicholas’s group mostly attempted to return home, after the Pope told them to go back and after the sea failed to part for them. However, few made it back. As a chronicler of the time said, speaking of both groups, “One thing is sure: that of the many thousands who rose up, only a very few returned.”

One final result of the ill-fated Children’s Crusade: the angry parents of children who never returned persuaded the authorities to arrest and hang Nicholas’s father, who it appears had actually encouraged his son’s preaching pretensions out of personal vainglory.

A Losing Crusade

We all know the public schools today are not what they used to be thirty years ago. The facts are conclusive. God and His Word have been removed from the public schools. All subjects are taught without reference to God, or to the fact that man has a soul.

Jeremiah 10:12 tells us to “Learn not the way of the heathen.” Certainly, the public schools are no longer teaching our children the way of a Christian.

Nonetheless, many Christian parents rationalize that they are sending their children to the public school as crusaders to evangelize unsaved children.

I am convinced that sending our children to be potentially have their hearts, minds, or even souls “martyred” in the school system is much like the ill-fated Children’s Crusade in the Middle Ages. Unlike the medieval parents, who at least tried to stop their children from joining the Children’s Crusade, Christians today all too often insist on sending their children — who are untrained, unequipped, and unorganized — into battle with a trained, equipped, organized, ruthless, and mature foe.

The foe our children battle in the public schools is the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) secularism, humanism, and (more recently) non-Western religious thinking that currently engulfs the public school curriculum and environment. Your local government school is waiting and ready to mold and shape each of our children into its image.

Adults, Not Children, Need to Lead the Crusade to Reclaim the Public Schools

There are no biblical examples of children being used as missionaries or crusaders. Rather, the Scripture shows adults acting as missionaries and evangelists.

Do not misunderstand me. By no means do I want to abandon the public schools. We need Christian adults — not children — to be salt and
light in the public schools as teachers and administrators, school
board members, truant officers, and social workers.

When our children grow up, then we can send them to public school –
as adults whose jobs give them a measure of authority. But while they are young, we should not send them to be taught and discipled by a godless educational system in which they have no power or authority.

God Commands Parents to Train Their Children in the Lord

God commands us to provide our children with a comprehensive education based on His principles. For instance, Ephesians 6:4 tells fathers to “Not provoke our children unto wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” Are we provoking our children to wrath by sending them to a school system where they learn the opposite of what they learn at home? Are we creating intellectual schizophrenics? Are we playing Russian roulette with their tender souls?

Sending our children to public schools to save souls while they receive six or more hours of secular brainwashing is not a good way to win a battle. Disobeying Ephesians 6:4 by doing something in the name of God does not justify our sin.

Deuteronomy 6 tells us that we are to teach our children God’s principles: to love the Lord their God with all their heart, soul, and mind. It also says, “You shall teach them [God’s commandments] diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, when you rise up. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets on your forehead. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and your gates.”

In other words, God’s commands and truths must be taught to children by their parents, and they must be taught diligently. Our children are to be brought up in the instruction of the Lord. How can this be achieved if a child spends six or more hours a day receiving a public education that teaches him Christianity is irrelevant and that many vital Christian principles (such as the sanctity of innocent human life and the importance of faithful, monogamous, heterosexual marriage) are downright bigoted and bad?

If It Walks Like a Duck…

Proverbs 23:7 states, “For as a man thinks within himself, so he is.” If our children, who are sent to the schools to save souls, are trained to think like New Agers (in Earth Day ceremonies of Gaia worship), like Muslims (in compulsory classes that have them reciting the Muslim confession of faith and praying towards Mecca), like Wiccans (teacher resources based on the incredibly popular “Harry Potter” series often use the books as a springboard for introducing kids to the history and practices of witchcraft, complete with websites to visit), like animistic pagans (art activities and even religious ceremonies based on Native American shamanism and African animism are common in elementary-level curriculum), and like humanists (as their science, literature, and history courses ignore God or treat Him as a passing phase the human race has thankfully outgrown), our children will tend to act and live like a strange blend of New Agers, Muslims, Wiccans, animists, and humanists. Meanwhile, an entire generation of kids already has received the message: even Christmas itself better not include any references to Jesus Christ. The common theme here: being an atheist or agnostic is cool, and so is following any religion except traditional forms of Judaism or Christianity.

Kids taught this way won’t know what they believe. They will end up following the crowd or their changing feelings. They’ll strongly believe that everything is relative, what is true for you might not be for me, and that the worst thing in the world is to tell other people God has made rules for how we should live.

If you think this sounds like what just about every college kid today now believes, you’re right. It shouldn’t surprise us, because this is what they were taught from kindergarten through twelfth grade, with our tax dollars.

Moreover, Scripture states, “Everyone after he has been fully trained will be like his teacher” (Luke 6:40). This passage continues by describing the blind that lead the blind to the pit. This is why it is so important for parents to teach their children to think as Christians at home, and to let only godly teachers teach those children. Christian parents must not let their children to be conformed to the pattern of this world, but they must be “transformed by the renewing of their minds, that they may prove what is the good and acceptable and perfect will of God” (Romans 12:2). Meanwhile the public schools are working to conform our children’s minds to the pattern of this world.

We have been given a responsibility and authority before God to teach our children. We can delegate the authority to the public schools, but we can never delegate the responsibility. God will hold us responsible for training our children in the Lord as He commands in Scripture.

God Would Rather Have Obedience Than Sacrifice

Sending our children as crusaders or missionaries to the public school sounds like a noble idea, but it is clear from Scripture that in light of what the public schools have become, it would be presumptuous disobedience to God.

For instance, in I Samuel 15:1-23, King Saul directly disobeyed God’s command to destroy all the Amalekite’s animals. He spared the animals and claimed it was only so they could be sacrificed to the Lord –
surely a noble goal! But God rebuked Saul through Samuel, saying “Does the Lord have much delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold to obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed than the fat of rams.”

Are we trying to make a “sacrifice” to God by sending our children to public school on a crusade to “save souls” while disobeying God’s clear commands to us concerning raising our children in His way? To obey God’s clear Word is better than a “child sacrifice” He never commanded.

High School Students Aren’t Trained Adults Yet

Christian parents quote Psalm 127 and say we want our children to be “like arrows in the hand of a warrior.” Do we want our children to be homeschooled part of the time, and then before the “arrow” is finished, send them off to the public schools? Don’t we want our “arrows” to have a point to them? We do not want to shoot into the secular world unfinished “arrows” that are not fully sharpened. Such “arrows” will miss their target and make no impact.

The high school years are the launching pad for the rest of our children’s lives: the final phase of training each child for adulthood so that he or she thoroughly thinks like a Christian and applies and knows biblical solutions to his or her future work, family, and community. We should not send our children off too soon when they are not fully trained or equipped.

Having been blessed by God with a quiver full of seven children, I am convinced that homeschooling is the best way that my wife Tracy and I can fulfill God’s commands to provide our children with a comprehensive biblical education and train them to be well-equipped Christian warriors, ready to stand up for God and His Truth even when it hurts.

Looking Sharp

As your children get into the high school years, some may express their desire to enroll in the public schools. Their reasons will vary. Sometimes it will be athletics, sometimes the reason will be friends. I urge you to sit down with your child with the Word of God and go through Ephesians 6:4 and Deuteronomy 6 and many other passages in Scripture. Then look your child in the eye and say, “Son or daughter, I don’t want you to be mad at me. But as you can see from the Scripture, God has given me clear commands on how to train you and I cannot fulfill these commands if I send you to public school. So the bottom line is that even though I love you, I would rather have you mad at me than God mad at me!”

If Satan had his choice, where would he want you to send your child to school? I’m sure he loved the Children’s Crusade because those children either ended up dead or enslaved and their mission ended in defeat.

Our culture is in need. The harvest is great and the workers are few. Let us all make sure that we raise fully equipped, well-trained, and organized young adults to go into the world — including into the
public schools — and make a difference there for Jesus Christ!


Christopher J. Klicka is Senior Counsel of the Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA), and has successfully represented thousands of homeschool families threatened by prosecutors, social workers, and truant officers. He also works on drafting federal legislation and lobbying on Capitol Hill. Chris is author of the popular book, The Right Choice: Home Schooling, and his newest book, The Heart of Home Schooling. He and his wife, Tracy, homeschool their seven children. For information on how to join HSLDA, call (540) 338-5600 or visit www.hslda.org.

Michigan Has New Graduation Requirements

January 1st, 2006

State Board of Education Approves Increased State High School Graduation Requirements

Contact: Martin Ackley, Public Information Officer 517.241.4395
Agency: Education

December 13, 2005

LANSING - The State Board of Education unanimously approved today a set of increased state high school graduation requirements for all Michigan students.

Four years of math and English language arts and three years of science are among the requirements; as well as three credits of social studies, two credits of world languages, and one credit each of health/physical education and visual and performing arts. Currently, only one semester of civics is required for high school graduation under state law.

“This change was absolutely necessary,” said State Board of Education President Kathleen N. Straus. “With the evolving economy and global pressures on what education and skills students will need for the jobs of today and tomorrow, we needed to act now.”

“What we’ve done here today is so very important for the future of the State of Michigan,” Straus added, “not just for the students, but for the future of the entire state.”

Governor Jennifer M. Granholm, who has advocated for a rigorous mandated state curriculum, joined the Board in the afternoon and personally thanked the members for their leadership in this endeavor.

“I appreciate the leadership of every member of this Board who has insisted, and felt, and known that we very much need to up the ante on our expectations of young people in this global economy,” Granholm told the State Board.

“Thank you for believing in our kids. Thank you for really painting a future for Michigan that is much more promising than when you began your efforts this morning. I, as Governor, am utterly grateful to you on behalf of our children, and on behalf of the parents, who are grateful to you for requiring a certain core curriculum, and a core curriculum that really dovetails with the economy,” Granholm said.

Michigan Department of Labor and Economic Growth Director David Hollister, in his leadership role with the Michigan Economic Development Corporation, the Council of Labor and Economic Growth, and the Governor’s Council of Economic Advisors, also addressed the Board. In supporting the new requirements, Hollister explained that a rigorous curriculum and workforce development are the keys to the state’s economic growth. He called the Board’s action as being critical to the future of Michigan.

The State Board’s requirements mirror those presented in November by State Superintendent of Public Instruction Michael Flanagan, with the addition of the two credits of world languages, and the expectation that technology, including assistive technology devices and services, will be infused in the delivery of the new requirements.

The requirements include what is being called the Michigan Merit Curriculum that combines a core list of rigorous academic classes, along with a list of 21st Century skill sets that will be integrated and taught in all courses.

The Michigan Merit Core of academic courses in the State Board’s plan include:

* four years of English language arts;
* one year each of Algebra I, Geometry, Algebra II, and an additional math class in the senior year;
* one year each of Biology; Physics or Chemistry; and one additional year of science;
* three years of social science, which must include a semester of civics and a semester of economics;
* two years of world languages;
* one year of health/physical education; and
* one year of visual and performing arts.

The State Board also requires that all high school students take the Michigan Merit Exam, or the alternate MI-ACCESS assessment for students with severe disabilities; and that all students complete at least one on-line credit or non-credit course or learning experience, in order to graduate.

“This is a great balance that creates flexibility for school districts,” said State Board member Reginald Turner. “It gets us where we should be today and challenges us to think more of where we need to get to tomorrow.”

By this action, the State Board exercised its state Constitutional role of leadership, general supervision, general planning and coordination of all public education. The Board went on to further its partnership with the Executive and Legislative branches of state government by adding in its Resolution an encouragement for the Governor and Legislature to enact complementary legislation.

Governor Granholm has called for the adoption of a state mandated curriculum for all high school students, arguing that Michigan’s economy will suffer if the state does not have a highly-educated workforce. She appointed last year The Cherry Commission on Higher Education and Economic Growth, which called for higher academic standards to prepare students for greater success in their post-secondary education, and to meet the Governor’s goal of doubling the number of college graduates in Michigan.

The Michigan Merit Curriculum would begin with the freshman class next year, if any necessary legislation is passed and enacted by March 1, 2006. If legislation is not enacted by that time, the requirements would begin with the following freshman class.

While the State Board’s plan would instill rigor into high school graduation requirements, it also provides some flexibility in the form of district phase-in of the curriculum and student modification provisions in limited circumstances after their junior year.

The basis of the recommendations was collected by a research task force of education experts commissioned to study the issues and investigate the best practices of five other states that have implemented high school graduation requirements.

I Bought it On Ebay

December 3rd, 2005

As the Christmas crush presses against you like a lead blanket, take a moment and laugh at the Ebay song.

Hope you enjoy it and have a good laugh

I bought it at Ebay
After loading, press the play button and turn your sound up.

Enjoy!

When Does Homeschooling Stop?

November 11th, 2005

As a father of eight children one would wonder, “When does homeschooling stop?” Well, I’ve come to observe that it doesn’t! Don’t be afraid that this might be the case. Proverbs 22:6 speaks about teaching while they are young so when they are old, they will keep their faith and values. What happens when the grandchildren come home to roost? Recently, our eldest daughter has started a second job to make ends meet. She has three children and one of school age. She doesn’t make enough to use a daycare center. My loving wife, has taken them into our home and helps teach the one school age granddaughter.

Why would a mother of eight take on more responsibility? It is because she knows the value of a stable home setting. She also knows the importance of teaching values near and dear to Christians - morality, faith in God, a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. She has an opportunity to share these values. Also, the grand children see stability, feel loved, and have some sense of normalcy in a single parent family.

Sure it is difficult, but what is the right thing to do? I thank God that he has given us the resources to help our daughter. I thank God that my wife is an loving example of Christ’s Kingdom.

So… you tell me when homeschooling stops. I haven’t found the end yet.

Hearing your Wife?

September 16th, 2005

Living in a busy household (who isn’t?) and trying to do all the things required leaves me sometimes unable to “hear my wife”. I don’t mean the audible type of hearing, but the nonverbal hearing. As an example, my wife has issues with debt. We pay our bills but sometimes charge essential purchases and pay on time. This causes her quite abit of stress and it doesn’t bother me. Thus the insensitivity.

As a purported loving, caring, Christian husband, I should know well what makes my wife happy, unhappy, stressed, etc. But being a black and white thinker, I sometimes fail to hear my wife. Yesterday, she was to the point of breaking - phone calls, bills, homeschoolers calling, and just the normal daily routine all rolled together. She was very disappointed with me because I didn’t hear her.

Today, I have scheduled time to work with her on the finance issue to show her a plan to move us out of debt and to “hear her”. I love my wife and work hard in all the wrong ways to make her happy. I do things I think are good but she sees them as selfish things - because I didn’t hear her”.

Today and in the future, I will opt to put on her thinking cap and try to see things through her personal perspective. Tomorrow, maybe she will say “you heard me”.

To God be the Glory.

September 11, 2005

September 11th, 2005

Today, we stopped to remember the terrorist attack or 9-11-2001. Even though we have not had another attack on the US homeland, Brittian has had two attacks on their subway and bus system. What we have learned in the 4 years since it happened, Islam radicals will continue to bring destruction to civilized nations. Until they have heart surgery - they will hate anybody that does not believe in the faith of Islam. Until they find the redemptive power of faith in Christ, they will continue in their savagery.

I thank God today that he has birthed freedom in the United States. I am thankful that I can practice my faith in freedom.

Team Spirit

July 28th, 2005

The Rooky Webmaster’s home has been disassembled for about 3 months. The floors have been exposed to the subflooring. The walls have been stripped of any wood trim. A floor has been raised, a room drywalled, and the first floor painted. The woman of the house has led this charge. I have been in charge of the charge cards! Ouch!! Even though we haven’t been able to sit down to dinner many days, and the TV has been disconnected from the world, a real progress has been made.

What has been observed is the determination of my wife to involve the children in the process. They have weilded tools of destruction, orbital sanders, rollers, and many other weapons of mass construction. My wife tells me we are nearing the end. The end of what I ponder. The end of our sanity! The end of life as last known! Working about an hour from home limits my participation in this rebuilding. I get to trim the windows, doors, repair the flooring, etc.

With all that has gone on, I want to profess that my family understands team work. They work well to accomplish the goals of home improvement. They know that they have the strength or time. They will also be able to have their friends over and proclaim “I did that”, or “I built this floor”, or “drywalled this room”. During their team work, they’ve learned new skills and have a better appreication of what goes on during home improvements.

I have observed many physical and intangible home improvements during this exercise. To this I say “thanks Pat for your motiviation to improve our house”.

Respite at Green Lake Wisconsin

July 11th, 2005

Our church hosts the Holy Spirit Renewal Ministries conference at Green Lake Conference Center in Green Lake Wisconsin. I am enjoying my week away from work but not my computer. A webmaster is never off the hook when it comes to his/her websites. I am managing four sites and must update and keep up the sites. But… I really enjoy it.

Back to Green Lake! This is definitely part of God’s country. The rolling hills and beautiful lake are just breath taking. The grounds are a little dry because of the shortage of rain but other wise, its great.

One of the speakers, Greg Boyd, really hit the churches problem right on the head. We have not placed love above ALL. The church has hurt more people and we continue to play church. Greg asks us to become the fagrance of Calvary and truly exhibit Jesus’ love. Through love, we can minister to the unchurched, unloved, and in need of Jesus’ salvation. The conference is all week and I will try to update as we go.

July 4, 2005

July 3rd, 2005

Today, as I work on my house with my family, I am thankful that courageous men and women took the time to fight for freedom from England. I am thankful that the delegates sought out the best form of government and wrote the Constitution.

Today, let’s take time to thank God for our freedoms in the US. Also, let’s pray for protection to our service men and women for their service and sometimes sacrfice to maintain the freedoms won.

Today, I am thankful to be an American.

How to Sell Used School Books

June 21st, 2005

I can tell that the end of the school has commenced. I know this because the traffic at Homeschool Book Swap has picked up. If you have homeschool education material to sell, list them free at http://homeschoolbookswap.com. While you are there, take a look around and see if you can help some other homeschooler sell theirs by buying what you need there. Remember, this is a totally free site for those that list or sell. It won’t hurt to take a look!

Coffee?

June 16th, 2005

I have drank coffee most of my adult life (about 40 years of drinking coffee). I have read and heard about the values and negative impact of drinking coffee. What to do? Stop? Continue? Who knows?

Well, my body gave me a little push recently to stop. I was given a prescription pain killer that had caffiene in it. I always have had a reaction to caffiene. When I drink the same number of cups, no problem. Drink more or less, I have terrible headaches and am sick to my stomach. Well, this prescription pain killer put me over my limit and when I stopped, I had the worst withdrawal headache that I ever have had. I was in bad shape for a day and half.

With this final push, I gave up caffiene of all sorts and now I learn about the effects of not drinking. I have been so sleepy day after day. I can’t stay awake. Watch out for me on the road! I’ll be the one sitting at the railroad crossing after the train has gone by! Give me a friendly toot of your horn and I will procede. I know, what does this have to do with homeschooling? I don’t know, but it was on my mind today as I tried to do something to stay awake.

Thanks for reading.

Home Repairs

June 1st, 2005

I have been really busy lately. Working my normal job and then catching up on 20 years of neglect on the house. We have painted, laid new flooring, roofing, etc. All of the family has helped. It has been a family affair of the extreme make over variety. The house, garage, and flower boxes all are looking sharp. Even so sharp that someone stopped in the driveway and asked if our house was for sale because they loved our house and wanted to buy it. The work must be paying off. Gotta’ go to bed.

Flexibility

April 29th, 2005

I have been so busy lately, I had to learn about flexibility with my homeschool family. With eight children, there is always… always someone needing a ride to practice or to church for youth night. Or you might hear “watch your brother and sister while I do some quick errands”. The schedule is always in flux.

What does one do with this? You teach about flexibility. We learn that this is how life will operate. You never know when you will have to treat a minor injury in the home. Your parents call and need help getting to the doctor or something. This is how life is and you can become frustrated and disappointed about it. Take this moment to reflect how you are honoring God by helping your parents. Someone needed special attention right now! Teach flexibility in your homeschool. Remember, every moment CAN be a teaching moment.

What Do We Value?

March 15th, 2005

I was short on thoughts of my own when I happened to see this post by SpunkyHomeschool’s Spunky. I enjoyed reading this and I think you will too.

When my son was little we were attempting to teach him the value of money. His grandmother had given him a $5 and we were trying to explain to him what that meant. He didn’t seem all that interested in a piece of paper and saw little value in it. That is until we told him that if he took that piece of paper to the ice cream parlor that man would gladly accept his piece of paper for a dish of ice cream. Now that excited my little guy.

When we went to the parlor he proudly walked up to the counter and placed his order. When he received his ice cream he gave the $5 bill to the clerk. As he did he said, “I don’t understand it, but for some strange reason you want this piece of paper more than ice cream!”

My son saw more value in ice cream than money and was willing to trade for it. He knew what he valued and was confident in his choice. Communicating what he valued was easy and obvious.

The first step to passing on our values to our children is knowing what we value not just what we say we value.

When we know what we believe and value it is easier to communicate that in a clear way to our children. If we are unsure or confused they will be also. If we are hypocritical in our values they will reject them. If we tell them we value the teachings of the Bible but they never hear us reading the Bible to them they are less likely to believe us.

We all live our values every day. Unfortunately, the way we live isn’t always the same as what we say we value. For my son, it was obvious he was willing to sacrifice a “worthless” piece of paper to get what he valued the most. Are we willing to do the same?

Spunky

(If you have thoughts about how to pass along your values to your children I would love to hear them as well. Get the details here.)

Question of the Day to Fathers - “When Were You Involved in Homeschooling Our Children?”

February 26th, 2005

Yesterday, Pat my wife and homeschool mom, asked me “when were you involved in homeschooling our children?” This at first came as a surprize! What do you mean, “when was I involved?” I was hurt, frustrated, and disappointed that she felt this way. Then as all sensitive men should, I tried to understand what she was really saying.

During this introspective search of my involvement, I found that I had played the supportive role instead of participative role. Sure, I had allowed her to teach, bought the curriculum material, and attended a few of the field trips with our children. I believe what this homeschool mom was really saying, “when did you take an active role in leading our family in prayer and faith?” Other questions could have been “why don’t you share from your experiences, your failures, your successes, your skills, your talents?”

My wife was having a bad day and all of these hurts were surfacing. I wanted to be defensive. As I learn more about relationships, I took pause and tried to really really hear her. She said that she wasn’t trying to tear me down, but allow an opportunity to learn and grow… becoming a better homeschool father.

Homeschool moms, as you read this, don’t gloat with the “see, I told you so” attitude, but a more reconciliatory stance, and say “here is a father that is trying to be a better homeschool father. What can WE learn from this?”


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The Greatest Mistake in American History: Letting Government Educate our Children

February 24th, 2005

In December 2004, Mr. Harry Browne, author and successful investment advisor, delivered the above speech during Evenings at Fee (Foundation for Economic Education). Mr Browne starts off by stating “just go into an ordinary supermarket and look at all of those meats and vegetables, fruits and milk, candies and snacks, and everything else. If you want ice cream, there’s Edy’s, Breyers,Haagen Dazs, Ben & Jerry’s, and a dozen others. And it doesn’t matter what the person next to you wants: he is free to get the Breyers ice cream while you might prefer Edy’s. You don’t have to vote on it, you don’t have to pressure anybody. You simply come in and choose.

Unfortunately, compulsion, not choice rules schooling, the most important area of our lives.”

To hear the speech in its entirety, go here, Evenings at FEE


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American Dream

February 21st, 2005

On Thursday February 17th, I took my wife to see Casting Crowns. This group really ministers to me through their words. Today, I share the Casting Crowns version of the American Dream…

American Dream - lyrics by Mark Hall

All work no play may have made Jack a dull boy
But all work no God has left Jack with a lost soul
But he’s moving on full steam
He’s chasing the American dream
And he’s gonna give his family the finer things

Not this time son I’ve no time to waste
Maybe tomorrow we’ll have time to play
And then he slips into his new BMW
And drives farther and farther and farther away

So He works all day and tries to sleep at night
He says things will get better;
Better in time

And he works and he builds with his own two hands
And he pours all he has in a castle made with sand
But the wind and the rain are comin’ crashing in
Time will tell just how long his kingdom stands
His kingdom stands

His American Dream is beginning to seem
More and more like a nightmare
With every passing day
“Daddy, can you come to my game?”
“Oh Baby, please don’t work late.”
Another wasted weekend
And they are slipping away

‘Cause he works all day and lies awake at night
He tells them things will get better
It’ll just take a little more time

He used to say, “Whoever dies with the most toys wins”
But if he loses his soul, what has he gained in the end
I’ll take a shack on the rock
Over a castle in the sand
Now he works all day and cries alone at night
It’s not getting any better
Looks like he’s running out of time
‘Cause he worked and he built with his own two hands
And he poured all he had in a castle made with sand
But the wind and the rain are coming crashing in
Time will tell just how long his kingdom stands
His kingdom stands

All they really wanted was You
All they really wanted was You
All they really wanted was You

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Why do I include these lyrics? It is my hope that some homeschool father, any father really, will take time to ponder this and recognize that our children need men in their lives. Children need to be held and nurtured by us men as well as their mothers. Please take a few moments and share your love with them. Use words, hugs, and true interest in who they are.

The “heart” parts of homeschooling

February 16th, 2005

Spunky of Spunkyhomeschool wrote about the “heart” parts of homeschool and I must agree with her wholeheartedly.

One of the greatest rewards is helping another family with homeschool. Just when you are about to give up, someone calls and says “you might not remember me, but some time ago I called you and you encouraged me to home school my child. I am calling to say that my child is doing great and I wanted you to know how thankful I am!” I have not received these calls personally, but my homeschool wife does quite often. Having homeschooled over 22 years, led a homeschool support group, and taught 8 children of her own, she has had these calls many times. When I come home, she tells of how these calls encourage her and she knows that she is doing her God given mission. Homeschooling is tough, but the blessings are eternal.

Advantage #231 of Homeschooling

February 13th, 2005

Homeschooling possesses many advantages over conventional public school education. When we went on vacation to Florida in late January, homeschool came along. The homeschool student already knew the assignments. The books were brought along. During the 2o hour trip, homeschool assignments were completed. Education is a life long process and it continues even while on vacation.